Adult Friend Finder
Interview and Intro by Megan Cahn

Everyone needs to get laid and sometimes the best lay can be with someone you don’t love, maybe even someone you don’t know. The bars of our city are feeding grounds for those lusting for a loveless night of passion. But with most one night stands comes a serious hangover, an awkward goodbye, and the realization that beer goggles really do exist.

So is there a better formula for getting off and staying single? A Working Class reader who wishes to remain anonymous thinks so, and it’s called the Internet. On Adult Friend Finder you can pick a mate who suits your specific needs, skip the bullshit, and just fuck. Here’s how she did it:

WC: Why did you decide to join Adult Friend Finder?

I decided to join AFF because I wasn’t finding any black men in my city to have sex with. I was meeting people here and there, but I wasn’t getting the sexual gratification I truly wanted. I decided to sign up and see what was out there.

WC: Did you feel desperate?

Nope. Not in the slightest. I felt quite the opposite. It made me feel empowered; in control.

WC: What was the setting when you met up?

He came over one work night – late. Probably around 11pm. My male roommate was home and acted as the chaperone. The lights were low, I was in a silk robe with nothing underneath, my roommate cut up orange slices for us.

WC: How nervous where you?

Very. But once he showed up and I saw how fine he was, I calmed down.

WC: What did he look like?

Gorgeous – chocolate, big lips, bald.

WC: Were you sober?

I had a ½ a beer before, but I was pretty sober.

WC: What happened once he got there?

We sat on the couch for about 10 minutes and chatted then I brought him to my bedroom and we went at it almost immediately.

WC: What is it like having sex with a complete stranger?

He wasn’t a complete stranger. I got to know him better than almost every single one of my one-night stands. I knew so much about him by the time we fucked; I had just never met him in real life.

WC: How was the sex?

Unbelievable. He made me cum from eating me out in like 25 seconds. Might I mention that he has one of the most chiseled, muscular, “perfect” bodies that I have ever been with. And his dick was about 10” and thick Whoa. He is definitely the finest one-night stand I have ever had; he exceeded my expectations and more.

WC: How long was he there? How did he end up leaving?

He was over for about an hour. He left and went home afterwards. We were cordial and sweet to one another. He told me I give the best head and my pussy is beautiful, you know, the usual shit.

WC:  Did you ever see him again?

Yes - a few times. We went to a few concerts together. He is a really smart, sexy, cool dude. I ended up passing him off to a girlfriend of mine who proceeded to also enjoy the fruit of his loins. They didn’t last, but she definitely enjoyed him for awhile.

WC: Did you feel guilty afterward?

No. Guilty? Fuck no. I don’t feel guilt about things that aren’t wrong. Are you implying what I did was wrong?

WC: What were other people's reactions when you told them?
I think everyone thought I was crazy, but were open to me doing my thing. I bet some thought I was desperate for going on a sex website for sex, but I don’t really give a shit. And I also bet some were envious of my ability to go for what I want and get it. I got so much damned pleasure out of that lovely man that all the doubts and judgments were moot to me. Mostly, my friends were freaked out about my safety. But my roommate was in the room next door listening for screams and hollering.

WC: What do you think of when you think about it now?
I think it’s awesome. I am proud that I tried something new, fun and safe with my sexuality. I was seeking something that I wasn’t finding by going to bars, so I made it happen for myself. I’m quite proud of it actually. I think of it as a sophisticated, grown-up path to exploring your sexuality. Who can say they have ever had a one-night stand sober?